1. Intro

For years, men have been trying to figure out how I am able to go from the friend zone, to the guy that these girls deeply fall in love with. To give you an idea, I dated every single girl my three closest friends had crushes on in grade school. It got to the point where they would either keep a girl away from me, or they'd say something really negative about me in hopes of getting me out of the picture. One guy got so nervous of me taking his girlfriend, that when he went out of town, he wanted me to leave the apartment because his girlfriend had a spare key and he was afraid she'd try to sleep with me. I never went after these girls, as they came after me. In another instance, two of my boys were competing over a girl, said the usual bad things about me, thus sparking her interest about me. In the end, she asked for my phone number, just to see if what they were saying about me was true. And what happened? We talked on the phone, and within 24 hours of her first talking to me, by the end of the night, I had this girl telling me how in love with me she was.

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And look at some of the girls in the blog. Freckles for instance, knew about the blog, told me I was wasting my time with her, thought I treated women like shit, and even after all of this, I ended up in bed making out with her. Appleface hated the blog, hated how I treated women, and I cheated on her TWICE within 24 hours. And after all of the yelling? She still came back, even though she still had plenty of other male options. Moving on to Sex Lips. You can see how she went from using an excuse not to go out with me, to jumping all over me by the time we got to her place. If you haven't caught on and figured out my secret ingredient, it's the power of listening & observation. As a child, my life depended on both. I had my first gun pulled on me when I was nine or ten (by a friend), and due to a lot of the circumstances I was in, being a quiet guy, I developed a sixth sense for listening and observation in order to protect my life. As I got older, I employed this sixth sense to women. And it allowed me to excel with them. No guy could figure out why women were attracted to me. They'd look at me, see how quiet I was around women, and wonder how I was getting so many of them. And more importantly, they'd notice how I managed to get out of the friend zone very easily. Listening & observation is how I did it.

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I love the friend zone because it allows me to store useful information about every girl I talk to. I know her triggers, what turns her on, off, what she's afraid of, what makes her tick, etc. And all I do then, is feed her exactly what she wants, tell her what she wants to hear. This was the case with Sex Lips. For instance, I quickly picked up on how nervous and paranoid she was, and adjusted my behavior accordingly by access a different part of my personality. I have a firm belief that I can sleep with any female friend of mine because of this ability. I knew everything I needed to know to date girls like Freckles. My problem was not wanting to compromise in order to completely win her over. She pretty much told me what I needed to know. I needed to soften up, and chase her. Neither of which I was willing to do. But moving on to what you want to hear; how do you employ my strategy and develop a sixth sense for what women want to hear? Never thought you'd ask:

4. Listen attentively

Stop talking about yourself and ask her simple questions about her lifestyle. You don't need any mindtrick games for this. Just listen, and she'll tell you everything you need to know. For example, if she talks about how she likes to take her time with completing a particular task (graduation, picking a career), then it's in your best interests not to push her on anything. But at the same time, if she talks of a racey, fast paced life,then you probably want to take that as she wants you to be aggressive and fast paced. For example, I wouldn't spend a lot of time trading emotions with this girl, I'd constantly keep her guessing and take her from place to place if we went out on a date.

5. Be very observant

Let's use Sex Lips for example, notice how when I went into her house, I took in as much information as I could about her and used it as our conversation topics when we went out. I did the same thing with Barbie Doll when I noticed her jacket and glasses. This is going to help her feel closer to you and like you've known each other for awhile. If I remember correctly, Sex lips said something about how observant I was and how I was unlike any other guy she's ever met.

6. Do not be judgmental

The less judgmental you are, the more she's going to tell you. This is how I got a lot of women in grade school. I'd just shut up while they talked, and the more they talked, the more information they gave me. And since I didn't judge them, they trusted and felt comfortable talking to me. What a lot of guys in the friend zone will do, is instantly get bitter that they aren't dating these girls, and start attacking them. I never did that and I only gave advice when asked.

7. Always end your conversations on a positive note

I never try to end my conversations negatively. When I talk to these girls, and they tell me about something negative they did or something negative that happened, I always try to get them to see things in a positive light at the end. For example, let's say a female friend tells me that she's dropping out of school and 100% sure it's not for her. Instead of criticizing her, I might say something like 'That's a good opportunity for you to explore your true aspirations/take that trip to New York/relieve some of your stress etc.' As a result, these girls might say 'Assanova, that's why I like you. I feel like I can always talk to you'. And when I don't show any sexual interest, these girls end up quickly falling head over heels for me. Listening & Observation. Use it to your advantage.